Bi the Way with Nchotwife & Drtymaxx

Episode 12 with special guests Cameryn Morie & Bobby B

Ashley & Kyle Season 1 Episode 12

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We invite our new friends to talk about how they got introduced into the lifestyle, what some of their boundaries are now versus what they were when they started and one very spicy but funny story they shared with us! 

SPEAKER_05

Here we are. Coming live from Virginia Beach, Virginia. We got some special guests here. If you guys want to introduce yourself, I'm Bobby B.

SPEAKER_01

I'm Cameron Ree. And we are with NC Highway.

SPEAKER_05

And Dirty Max.

SPEAKER_01

Okay, so we like to bring special guests on to get other people's opinions about lifestyle, content creation, all of that fun stuff. So figure out how people started and the lifestyle and stuff like that. So first off, how did you guys get into the lifestyle?

SPEAKER_06

The dirty talk. Yeah, like oh you talk about it. Go ahead, here we go.

SPEAKER_03

Um we always have been very not vanilla in the bedroom, I guess. We've always talked about like, you know, how high it would be to have threesomes, and then we, you know, we started with the pillow talk when we were having sex and it was getting more deep, and I was like, you know, I want to watch you make some, you know, make another girl come. And then I noticed every time I would say that, I'm like, fuck, I just worked really hard. He was like, Oh, you want to watch me eat another girl's pussy? And I'm like, So we were like, okay, I'm like, so we were uh we had met some friends and they were in the lifestyle, and um, they were also content creators, and they invited us to dinner one night, and we were like, Yeah, let's just go. They're they're hot, they're you know, they seem super cool. So they were telling us about the lifestyle, they were veterans in the lifestyle, and they were talking to us about these lifestyle parties um that we could go to, and it was no pressure, you didn't have to dive in head first, you could literally just go and watch. And we were like sounded fun as shit. We were like, well, we're gonna watch, but okay. Um, so we went to our first like hotel takeover lifestyle party, and um, we ended up that night in a room with like 12 other people, which was a group orgy. Yeah, um, we couldn't participate fully because somebody couldn't get stay hard.

SPEAKER_00

We've all had a lot of people.

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We didn't know about the.

SPEAKER_06

I'm not afraid to admit it, people. There was a lot of people in the room.

SPEAKER_03

But uh we did we did, you know, the oral with everybody, and I mean it was a great time, and everybody in the room was just so, so, so amazing. Um, and the drive home, we were like, fuck, that was really, really a lot. That was a lot. Yeah, that was fun. It was fun. I was like, you know, if you thought, if you could like get your dick hard, you'd think we would would you be okay with fucking? And he was like, yeah, and I was like, me too. So I was like, all right, we're gonna do it now. You know, we're gonna because we were, you know, at first we were like, we're gonna slow, we're gonna soft swap, we're just gonna face other people.

SPEAKER_06

Very slow.

SPEAKER_01

So you guys definitely went in slow, starting with like 12 other people. Yeah, yeah. Exactly. You guys like went full force in. Yeah. That was like the most memorable, still to this day, the best, one of the best times we've had. It took us a long time, I feel like, to do an orgy. Really? Yeah, like we were super nervous. Actually, the first time we went to a club, it was kind of there were six, six people.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

And he had the same problem. Right. We went home and he like went home super upset and he's like, the fuck is wrong with you. Like 30 years old, like, why the fuck can't I get hard? Yeah, hard, yeah.

SPEAKER_06

That's exactly that's exactly how it was.

SPEAKER_01

And then you realize like performance anxiety, oh yeah, you're right. Yeah. But it's women, you know, we're like, loops, fit, whatever, but yeah, you could never tell. Yeah, right.

SPEAKER_06

Um, yeah, guys, yeah, I could tell.

SPEAKER_01

You guys have it hard. No, not literally.

SPEAKER_04

Yeah, we try.

SPEAKER_01

So after you guys did the well, I guess you kind of answered that a little bit. So after you guys did the orgy, you kind of were like came back and ready.

SPEAKER_06

Went back out with that couple again, and we did then we did went back with smaller groups and just fully with our first time fully swapping, which is another which one-on-one couple.

SPEAKER_02

So that was like a more like that was a really great experience.

SPEAKER_05

So we got So is that more something that you guys like to do, like just full swap with one couple versus like Orgy style? Or do you kind of like a little bit of both?

SPEAKER_06

I think we're we're now on the medium of the stuff. No, I I I think it comes out because we didn't we haven't done a whole lot of four just four of us. Yeah. Cup just a couple swap. Mostly now it's our happy medium, is I guess six people, usually two other couples, and it just kind of rotates around. A little bit better, yeah. I don't know the rotation wise.

SPEAKER_03

For sure, it is a lot. Um, and especially to make sure everybody is like taken care of in a swinger situation when you have like five or other, you know, five or plus more couples. So we do like it a little bit more smaller and like intimate.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, I think we're the same way. Yeah, to get to the orgy style, it uh it's almost too much.

SPEAKER_03

If it comes to production and then you're like, I just want to just set up a damn camera. This we have enough though.

SPEAKER_01

So I think that's how when we uh did the hot wave tour. That was the first big orgy wave.

SPEAKER_00

The biggest orgy.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, I think we had done hmm three of them.

SPEAKER_05

No, I think we've done like seven or eight couples when we went to Trapeze.

SPEAKER_01

Oh yeah, we went to Trapeze in Atlanta. Um, but yeah, that was definitely the it's a little overwhelming. In the one hotel room. Yeah, it is. Yeah. Um no, the one we did at Trap was in like a it was probably the size of a hotel room.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, because there was like three full-size beds all in the city. Oh nice. Oh wow. Yeah, I was just like a baby.

SPEAKER_01

That helps a big room.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, that helps. When there's multiple beds and you got like two couples here, three couples here, that makes it I like it. I like everybody being in one bed.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

And so you just have like body parts on body parts you don't have me to be touching and just pleasuring everybody. That's like my ultimate. That's my favorite. I love that five. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

I like it because like then nobody's being left off. Right, exactly. I don't want anybody being left. Right, yeah. And you know, you don't want to feel like you're like, switch, switch.

SPEAKER_00

Right.

SPEAKER_01

I think I think that was the hardest thing for us. Like when we would do like couple swaps in the beginning, we're like, start out with your partner, and we're like, and I'm always the one that's like, okay, like always like my husband, like, are you gonna, and I'm like, why do I have to energy if somebody else needs to edit this okay? Not just me.

SPEAKER_05

Sounds a lot sexier when you're like, maybe a guy taking the husband's dick instead of like, hey, you want to set my dick. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

I always know when he's ready to switch because we start with each other. I can see him, he's like looking around like, alright, alright, who's that? I'm ready to switch now. He starts looking the room around like, alright, can I do that?

SPEAKER_06

I even want to make sure everybody's coming around. Just get the party started here. Somebody's gotta start the party, huh? Yeah. Bobby B loves to do that.

SPEAKER_01

Alright, well, he's in charge of it.

SPEAKER_05

I'm gonna be watching him and he's gonna be like, all right. We gotta switch now. Bobby said it's time to switch. We gotta get it.

SPEAKER_00

You'll not be the one to you don't like to initiate.

SPEAKER_01

It's always like Bobby said, we gotta switch.

SPEAKER_06

Rotate. I will say, I don't like to start off and you're in the room and you know it's happen, it's gonna happen soon, but nobody can initiate like the start start. Yeah. So it almost feels like the woman always has to, you know, if there's someone like to kiss a girl or something. Yeah, I guess. I notice the girl on girl kiss kind of thing. Always like that awkward. Yeah, yeah. And then the next day it's always, damn, I wish we would have started that a lot sooner. That was so much fun. That was a great time. They're talking, there's a lot of great conversations going on, but everybody in the back of their head's like, when are we gonna get the play? When are we when are we gonna start playing in here for a little bit?

SPEAKER_01

I feel like that's something people don't talk about enough.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Awkward parts of the lifestyle. It's not just we all get together and like. No, like we're there. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_06

Definitely not like that.

SPEAKER_03

All these people are your first dates trying to bring out sex with them. You're like, ooh, how I don't want to look too eager. I don't know, I don't want to go for that guy, so I'm just gonna start kissing my husband, and then you're like, and that's why I tell him he's just like start making out with me. Start making, and then we'll just start fucking me. I'm like, read the room!

SPEAKER_06

Then it says read the room.

SPEAKER_03

We're gonna initiate it. And I'm like, no, you're not couple of stars.

SPEAKER_06

Well, it's because there's obviously at some point there's great conversations going on. Yeah. And that's how you also know that it's about friendships too. You're you're getting a lot more out of it than just sex. Your fancy pants over here is like two, three o'clock in the morning.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, like we're starting, or on one point, and I can't have it. Like it'll be fucking or what?

SPEAKER_06

The window from Miss Cam Marie is going down.

SPEAKER_01

So as far as lifestyle and content creation, which did you start first?

SPEAKER_03

Um, I started content creating first. I started my OnlyFans first, and then um that's how we actually got in contact with the the um the swinger couple is I knew that they also did content, so I had that commented on one of their posts, and he was like, Hey, I was like, Can I get your wife's OnlyFans? And he's like, Can we get yours? And that's when we kind of like um we started chatting, and then we went out on a uh we went out to have dinner and drinks and a date with them, and so that's when we got into the swinger. But yeah, content first, just sitting there.

SPEAKER_06

But they also helped with the content too to kind of get like different ideas, so we had no idea on the ideas.

SPEAKER_01

Oh my god. Excuse me.

SPEAKER_06

We're trying to work here.

SPEAKER_01

We have a visitor.

SPEAKER_06

He's like, just checking out, see what's going on. What are you gonna do to him, buddy?

SPEAKER_01

Okay, tell him, bud. You're kind of heavy. There you go. Oh my god. Do something with your child.

SPEAKER_06

Oh, that's okay. He wants to be the middle. The guest star of the night.

SPEAKER_01

So many needs his mom. Sorry, guys. Um you made me lose my train of thought. Where was that going from that? Content first.

SPEAKER_06

So the content part kind of helped out, so then that we grew into both sides of it. And kind of branched off from there, I guess.

SPEAKER_01

I think that's the first time we've heard the content first.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

And then the Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

I think we, you know, maybe you could be judged too, because we're like, well, you know, they're content creators and they're not lifestyle and stuff like that. So everybody's got their own depiction on that. But ultimately.

SPEAKER_05

That's what we always say about the lifestyle is that there's so many ways to do it. There's not really a wrong way to do it. Right. It's whatever feels comfortable for you. Exactly. As long as you guys are happy, right? Other people don't matter. Right. Honestly, I mean, I know that probably sounds bad. Right. Well, and if your household is happy, then that's what matters. Right.

SPEAKER_03

But I tell people, like, I did start as a content creator for OnlyFans, but that helped me explore like my securities of being, you know, putting myself out there naked and sexually in, you know, we had both come from really terrible, terrible ex marriages. And I, you know, was I had walls up and boundaries up. And I would have like, if you would have asked me like 20, like how long have we been together? 10 years. If you would have asked me 11 years ago if I would ever be a swinger or anything, I would have been like, no, hell no. I would never trust a man to fuck another girl. Never, never, never. So, like, that's how you know I was in a, you know, we were both in bad marriages. So we actually evolved into everything together and at the same pace. It wasn't like he was like, Yeah, let's well, he did say, let's do content. You should do content, you should do content, you should do, you should do on the fans, but we literally grew into the lifestyle together at the same pace.

SPEAKER_06

It wasn't like go go play with yourself a little bit on the internet now. Boom!

SPEAKER_00

I mean, that's awesome, yeah.

SPEAKER_03

I mean, I mean we were always pretty I'm I was pretty wild back then too. So he was not. So it was easier for me to be able to have multiple people at the same time.

SPEAKER_06

I'm learning. I'm learning.

SPEAKER_01

I feel like we were kind of the both of us were the same way. Yeah, like neither of us were real wild until we started this. We were like completely different people. Yeah. Yeah. Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing. So you would get a lot of things. It's definitely a good thing. We would never have met you.

SPEAKER_05

Well, we met in high school and we were our each other's first.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, we had never had sex with anybody else before we started the lifestyle. Yeah, okay. Um, and I used to be the world's jealous person. Yes. I was awful. Yeah. You too? Oh, she was awful. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_03

I would have never gone multiple times and that kind of I wouldn't, I would always say I would never trust a man. I would never trust a man as far as I could throw him. I was like anti-min.

SPEAKER_06

And still to this day, I still worry that all of a sudden it's like some part of that brain's gonna go back and be like, no, we're done.

SPEAKER_03

That's right. It really makes a difference on who your partner is, and if they can show you that security, and like he, you know, he did nothing but you know, everything right, and I gained trust, and we had an amazing relationship, and we just started getting comfortable and easing, and it was great. It was like the best case scenario that could happen. Yeah, especially with so many people, they're like, How can you get my wife into the lifestyle? Can you teach me, tell me how to tell her that I want to be in the lifestyle? I'm like, you cannot just tell your wife. Yeah, how can I convince my wife to be in the lifestyle?

SPEAKER_01

Like, you can't be able to do that. You can't because I thought it was a trap. Yeah, because like he wanted to see me with an another guy. And I'm like, wait, like I've never been with another guy before. Is this like a trick? Like you're just trying to get me to say this and then you're gonna like turn this shit around on me. I'm not really sure.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, um, I'm still waiting for the day to say that.

SPEAKER_01

But then I was like, does he really just want to fuck other girls? Yeah. Because this wasn't about because we've never been with anybody else. Right. Like, does he need to fill another woman to to see? Right. Um but no, and still to this day, like that's that's his slops and stuff like that, but that is like what he enjoys watching.

SPEAKER_05

Um how do your boundaries and rules affect like how are they now versus when you guys first started?

SPEAKER_01

Well, let's start with what they were when you started. Yeah. What were your things you guys?

SPEAKER_03

At first we were we were like, oh, we want to be soft talk only. So we were we were good with kissing, we were good with oral on other people. Um then that only lasted like a week. Two trips, maybe, or something like that.

SPEAKER_06

Um but then actually that became something kind of brought up to the fact of like something we had to work out as far as doing the lifestyle because we were in a smaller full swap.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, we didn't know really what rules we needed to have in place until some boundaries of ours that we didn't know were boundaries until people pushed them and we were like, ugh, okay, that's definitely a boundary. We did not like it. We weren't on the same page.

SPEAKER_06

I was you know, I I wasn't thinking.

SPEAKER_03

He wasn't checking so I at first I wasn't checking in like checked in. Like, so when you're over there having your good time, well, and at first we were same bed. We were same bed, right? And the second the second um playtime that we had together, it ended up being in two separate beds. So that was the first time that we dealt with that. And I was like, full swap.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, and I and I had a nice raging yeah.

SPEAKER_03

See, I think, and I and I told him like you need to check in with me. I like to be checked in on, even if you know that I'm having a good time, like I need you to look at me, make eye contact with me, and be like, yeah, are you good? Are you good? Are you good? Well, this man, once he gets in going in his vibe, he is like time, I'm gonna laugh. And I was not having the time in my life, so I'm like over here trying to do fucking smoke signals to this motherfucker to get him to pay attention to me to saying, like, I'm not good right now, like hello, and he's just over there getting his dick ridden like it was fucking no tomorrow. And I'm like, oh my god, he's having way much more fun. It worked that night, it worked that night, and uh so then like it it everything went wrong in that in that that that scenario, and then so when we left, we were like, okay, we didn't realize that we needed to have X, Y, and Z boundaries, but we need to have X, Y, and Z boundaries, and we were like, maybe we're not swingers because that was really bad. And I had like I was in my feelings, he was in his feelings, and we worked through it. But now our rules are we just I don't uh no cream pies.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah. I don't uh I don't let anybody come in you, and you don't come in. I don't come in anybody either. I don't come in anybody either. Yeah. Yeah, guys, I don't know if you saw her, but she does not have a dick.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, yeah, like yeah, in this winger, yeah, yeah. When we're swapping partners and stuff.

SPEAKER_01

I feel like we had a lot of boundaries in the beginning, a lot more in the beginning than we do now.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Uh when we first started, like you were okay with me, like somebody fucking me, but I was not okay with him. Yeah, okay, so that makes sense. And some of that was like the jealousy, and a lot of that really was just I was insecure and everything else. Um I don't know that we have a lot.

SPEAKER_06

If it's like one of the things that helps with the content part too and seeing so much of it and being around so many different opened up to everyone.

SPEAKER_03

Yeah, because the person wasn't like totally sold honestly, just watching me have sex with other people while he had to watch. He was not like super like, oh, that's what gets me off. That's not what gets him off, is it? So he had to like, you know, kind of work it out for the content. So that's like and everyone's like, oh, you must love, you know, you love, you get off on watching, you know, do you like stroke your dick and cum when you watch your wife's scene? And he's like, no, that's not really what like that's not what gets me off. I get off when I like hear her coming, and like when he's next to me and I'm coming, and when you know, when he's coming and making another girl come at the same time, like that's when we're like, but yeah, I don't know where that came from. That gets off topic. Sorry.

SPEAKER_06

I'm gonna note that for later. Noted for later. I'm sorry, I just get so excited. No, that's good.

SPEAKER_01

Like there's like you have to talk about you know, stuff like that. I don't, I don't know, I don't feel like our boundary, like I feel like I probably have more boundary. Our our thing is if it's not something that we do together, it's not something that we're gonna do with other people, with other people. Um and I feel like for us that eliminates a lot of jealousy, insecure, any kind of issues that we may or may not have. Um I don't really know there's a lot. There's nothing. Like I don't do I I don't like come on my face because I feel like I spend too much money on my face and my hair. I know that sounds like No.

SPEAKER_06

I got she made sure I didn't come on her face earlier. Yeah, no lashes.

SPEAKER_03

He literally got it from here down.

SPEAKER_01

Um so like that's not something that we do with other people. Um but I don't really feel like you have a lot of I really don't.

SPEAKER_05

I mean, as long as you're having fun, I don't really care. We don't think we're gonna have to anal with other people.

SPEAKER_01

That's that's a thing, but I feel like that's a lot of people's rules and stuff. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

Oh yeah, definitely. That's it.

SPEAKER_01

And then as far as like swinger stuff, do you guys do like group chats? Do you guys do you prefer group chats? Okay, yeah. Yeah, we're the same way.

SPEAKER_03

If somebody's man texts me outside of a group chat, bye. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

No, yeah, we're yeah, we're very big on the group chat.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_06

I think we too even if I don't participate all the time. He comes in every once in a while, and he's he's there.

SPEAKER_01

I think you should I like died yesterday. You were like, one more pump motherfucker, and then I'm in there.

SPEAKER_06

I'm in there. I'm trying to keep up. Work's been busy.

SPEAKER_01

It's hard to imagine. I can't imagine how many group chats you guys have with like the hot wave tour and all that. There's so many. It's hard to keep up with all of them. That's a lot. Um, I feel like sometimes I'm just like, take my phone. I don't want to be on it. Right. I don't want to hear it go off. Um, do you get like that too?

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Like he's quick to respond, whereas I'm like, oh, it's okay.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, I think there's always one part of the relationship on most people.

SPEAKER_01

You'll tell one person, one person's always more communicated. I run my mouth more in person, and he runs his mouth more three times. I think that's fine. Yeah. I feel like that's the way that works out. Okay, so we'll do the hottest experience. And then like not a bad experience. We don't call a bad experience. We call them learning experiences. So you decide which one you want to start with. You can talk about the fun the oh well.

SPEAKER_06

It was uh we were at a hotel takeover in I guess North Carolina, and uh Miss uh Camry here was uh having a good time down at the pool. Met a couple that was an older couple that was we met before, and and so we wanted to play with them, and so and Cam likes to uh do afternoon plays, playtime. So we uh we went back to the room and I guess we got invited uh a couple other couples that end up coming in there, and they're like, Yeah, come in, we have a a fun time in our room. And so they have a uh karaoke machine, and then they have a motor bunny. I don't know. I don't know if everybody's familiar with a motor bunny, but it is the hottest sex toy machine you could have at a party.

SPEAKER_00

Wild singing karaoke.

SPEAKER_06

Wild singing karaoke. So we're in a group, and now it's like 12. I don't know, there was a large amount of people in this small room. It was only one bedroom, and that we have people singing karaoke songs of old rock songs, and we have uh girls in a in a going on the motor bunny, and there is just scorch everywhere flying everywhere.

SPEAKER_03

And you just everybody was just literally having so much fun and everybody having sex. Everybody was just literally having fun, like just responding to getting to know each other, and it was like the really good, it's a really good room to get people in to like start communicating and feel comfortable meeting new people, and that's exactly what they did. It was it worked perfectly.

SPEAKER_06

Little disappointed we still didn't get to play with that couple. Maybe someday they were a great couple, absolutely great couple, and so hopefully someday, but uh yeah, the ultimately it was That was your most memorable memorable point of just squirt and rock music. Can you imagine being one of those people clean up with it? They were trying to do towels, magic, they were throwing towels from everywhere.

SPEAKER_01

I would be like, this sheep.

SPEAKER_06

Well, they know, you know, it's just they know exactly what's going on. Yeah, if you don't know what a hotel takeover is, literally the hotel is shut down for uh swingers lifestyle party. So uh no doubt in your mind you don't you know what's going on in that hotel then and usually they have a whole level of of uh just different rooms of fun and excitement, so it's something different to try to.

SPEAKER_04

We like we like hotel takeovers. Yeah. I gotta ask which you said it was in North Carolina. Yeah, Durham. Who was it? Friction. Friction? Okay, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01

We've been on one friction party. It was the um, they do like one, it's not called Hat Wife, it's called For Her. Yeah, it's like Friction for Her.

SPEAKER_05

Uh huh.

SPEAKER_01

So we went to that one, but our goal is to go to a couple of years. You guys enjoyed it. Goodbye. Oh, damn. Yeah, please tell us. We'll go. Yeah, we'll go with you.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, people always ask us if we're going to the next one.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, that's that's when that one's next on our list. Yeah. Okay, we need to add that. Yes. Add that to our to-do list. Um okay, let's talk about your learning experience.

SPEAKER_06

We kind of brought that up. Yeah, that was yeah, that was that was what was our second time full of full swap.

SPEAKER_03

The full swap. Okay, so we're yes, yeah, that makes sense. That was the checking in. That was the worst one. That was the worst one.

SPEAKER_06

That's when we were like, from there, I mean, nothing has come close to that, other than I mean, there's been a few other times where I still have issues, but we will we come around it.

SPEAKER_03

Like he was just going to town, and everybody else was done, and he's still just going to town. Of course, I'm done, and I'm sitting here, standing here, like, what are you doing? You're the only one fucking.

SPEAKER_00

And he's just like, and I'm like, babe, me.

SPEAKER_03

I'm like, again, trying to smoke the most of this one. He's over here having the time of his life, so I had to go up to him and like stomp on his fucking foot. Like, give him attention. Like, then I'm like, all right, I don't, I'm not, I haven't been jealous to this point, but now I'm like, uh, this motherfucker's just not listening, he's not paying attention to me, and he's looking like he's having a bad time with his time.

SPEAKER_06

When it works, it works.

SPEAKER_01

Oh shit, now my wife is gonna be pissed at me. Yeah. I do feel like that's something people don't talk about enough. Is like, you can be in lifestyle. Like, how long have you guys been in the lifestyle? Lifestyle content. Five.

SPEAKER_00

Five years. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. So you guys have been in it for five. We've been in it for six.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Like you can still get jealous. Yeah. Like it's normal to get jealous. You just have to make sure you talk about it.

SPEAKER_06

Talk about it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03

And that's what's so great because we learn how to communicate like crazy about things that we don't like. You just feel it's a comes second nature because yes, you just and it bonds you closer.

SPEAKER_06

And when you get to be around other couples and talk about the same things, it helps to.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, and then you learn, like, okay, it's normal that I got jealous, or it's normal. It's normal to have performance anxiety. It's normal to um, like, get a little jealous when your white your husband looks like he's having a lot of fun. Yeah, yeah. It's normal to have those feelings in your head, but like the the fun and the friends that you make and everything outweigh those definitely insecurities and like jealousy things that you have.

SPEAKER_06

100%. I feel like have the best friends now from the lifestyle, 100%.

SPEAKER_01

We have no vanilla friends.

SPEAKER_06

No.

SPEAKER_01

We have a few. I'm I think when we when we started the lifestyle, um, we lost a lot. We lost a lot of friends. Right, right. Really, they weren't our friends. Right. Um but then the rest of them when he came, I don't like to say when he came out that he was by. But when he said he was by is when we lost.

SPEAKER_06

Lost the rest of the vanilla.

SPEAKER_01

You guys aren't really our friends anyway. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06

Yeah, definitely. Yeah, especially when you know you can be around other and uh hang around with everybody that feels so comfortable around you, like what the hell? Why would you be?

SPEAKER_05

I was already doing this shit before I said anything. Well, I didn't actually be different.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. Yeah. One more question.

SPEAKER_05

Okay.

SPEAKER_01

Your families. We won't go into details. Do your families know what you do? Mine does, yes. Okay.

SPEAKER_06

I'd just say they do. My dad, yeah, my dad knows. My mom, she knows what she has. It's like a don't ask, don't stop it. Okay. I once in a while I'll just jab a little bit just to mess with her. And my my parents love it. They don't care.

SPEAKER_01

That's great. So did yours handle it?

SPEAKER_03

Okay. Was there yeah, um, yeah, they've my mom knew first, and she was like, is this something that I can do? And I'm like, no, mom.

SPEAKER_06

No, no, mom.

SPEAKER_03

Oh, yeah, because at first I told them I was only selling like feet picks, right? And she was like, Oh my god, how much are you making from that? Can I let's do me? I mean she and I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, no. And then uh we ended up, he ended up getting in trouble with his job, and a lot of things were coming out, and so like I had to explain to her exactly the the extent, and she was like, Oh, that's not the job I would have liked for you to do in your life, but whatever, you know, you're happy, you're paying your bills, I don't care.

SPEAKER_01

That's that's pretty much it.

SPEAKER_05

That's like my parents, yeah.

SPEAKER_01

I always asked because uh we we were outed, but it's a long story. Um that I had a very like no contact, no conversation with my parents for several uh months after. Um but I was raised as a Southern Baptist. Like you don't know, that's not good.

SPEAKER_06

Um so I would just like to ask to see how people, if they're understanding, if not we've had Well anyway here, most parents aren't, unfortunately. What? So understanding. Oh yeah, yeah, understanding.

SPEAKER_03

No, and that's what I told him because he was like, I'm like, um he was so worried that he was gonna disappoint his parents, and I was like, that's because you've never disappointed him as a kid. I disappointed my parents all the time. This is nothing new for them.

SPEAKER_01

So I was the good kid. Oh, like when this happened, my parents are like, She's doing what? Yeah, like, oh my god, yeah, it was it was a it was a shock. Um, my parents also said um that what I was doing was prostitution. Oh yeah, and I was gonna go to jail. But that was just a it was a tactic too. Oh yeah, uh so now when our exes found out, hell broke loose.

SPEAKER_03

Oh, hell broke loose. Yeah, so those yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_06

A whole other level of shit.

SPEAKER_01

It's interesting to see people the way people people react. Yeah. Your dad said absolutely nothing. Yeah, and his his mom said kind of the same thing, like, well, that's not really what I would have picked for you to do, but you know, kind of whatever. And then she started asking too many questions.

SPEAKER_00

She stopped asking questions.

SPEAKER_01

Um and then that was it.

SPEAKER_03

I I showed my mom after wifey, I showed my mom like when it came out, I showed her like the you know how they send you or they send you the photos of all the things, and I sent her the photo of uh me and the uh the male talent and the wifey thing, and she was like, oh no, it was a picture of me and him, that's one. I sent the one of me and him, and it said with Alberto Blanco. Yeah and she texted back, she was like, didn't even comment about the picture, the photo, and is this who is Alberto Alberto's ring? And I was like, uh the male talent? She was like, Well, what's that for? And I'm like, so I explained, he's like, well, does Alberto get, or does Louis get Alberto's rap? Oh, does Bobby get Alberto's wife? And then we was like, damn, I should have said that too. I'm gonna get Alberto's wife. Because she knew we were swingers, so she was like, Why are you just begging and I was his wife there? It was funny.

SPEAKER_01

Oh god, I couldn't imagine. I would never show that. Yeah, there would be way too many questions. Yeah. And we're not, I'm not good at answering those. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05

Yeah, there were enough questions when we said we were flying to LA. Oh.

SPEAKER_01

Yes. Yeah, that, no. Alright, do you have any more questions for that?

SPEAKER_05

No, I think that was good. No? Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Alright, well, thank you guys. Yeah, thank you for hanging out with us. Always.

SPEAKER_05

One more thing. The people that are listening to you, where can they find you? Yes. Like if they want to see more of you, where can they find you? Go ahead.

SPEAKER_03

Um, CameronMurie.com. And I'm Cameron Marie literally all across the board on all platforms. OnlyFans, Many Vids, Instagram.

SPEAKER_06

And then you just follow from her page onto Bobby B's Bobby B unfiltered on Instagram. Growing from there. And it's Bobby B on OnlyFans. On yeah, yes. Not on Twitter though. Not on Twitter yet. Still waiting for my manager to work this.

SPEAKER_01

It happens. She's been busy, okay? She's very busy.

SPEAKER_05

She's been very busy. But I think that kind of wraps it up. It does.

SPEAKER_01

Thank you guys for listening. Thank you guys for hanging out. Thank you.

SPEAKER_05

Thank you.

SPEAKER_01

And we are, by the way, with Dirty Max and NC Howe.

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Bye.

SPEAKER_01

Thanks, guys.